Come Home to Yourself

You are not too much. You’ve simply been taught to shrink.

I’m Ilja Abbattista, and this is a space for your whole, unedited self.
A place where raw reflections and truth-telling support meet, where real-life coaching helps you untangle the spirals, quiet the overthinking, and find peace in feeling everything.

This is your reminder: You don’t have to earn rest, softness, or support.

Because You Deserve to Feel Safe in Your Own Life.

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Meet Ilja Abbattista

Speaker. Trauma & AuDHD coach. Truth-teller.

I help women unmask, rebuild, and thrive after years of adapting to survive — through grounded support and a voice that doesn’t flinch at the mess.

Ways to Work With Me

Voice Note + Text Support

Real-time grounding and truth-telling when you’re spiralling.

1:1 Coaching & Mentoring

For AuDHD, PTSD/CPTSD, and trauma-impacted women ready to come home to themselves.

Dating Profile Rewrites

Ditch the “cool girl” mask and write from your truth.

Group Circles (Coming Soon)

Short, powerful sessions for unmasking in sisterhood.

"Words That Landed"

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Why Choose Milestones?

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Trusted Care

At Milestones, all our services and resources are designed and delivered by a highly qualified and experienced Clinical Specialist Occupational Therapist.

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Affordable

We believe in making quality paediatric therapy accessible. Our resources and services are thoughtfully priced to ensure affordability without compromising on quality.

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Convenient

Our online training, support and individual sessions make it easy to fit therapy into your daily routine anytime, anywhere.

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