Every voice note from Ilja hit deeper than entire therapy sessions I’ve had.
Thank you, Sam
Ilja Abbattista
This is your reminder: You don’t have to earn rest, softness, or support.
Because You Deserve to Feel Safe in Your Own Life.
“this is who I really am”
Meet Ilja Abbattista
I help women unmask, rebuild, and thrive after years of adapting to survive—through grounded support, truth-telling, and a voice that doesn’t flinch at the mess.
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“words that landed”
What They’re Saying
“Ilja doesn’t just listen—she gets you. I’ve never felt so seen and gently called forward at the same time.”
— Rachel
“There’s no fluff with Ilja. Just real truth, real support, and real shifts.”
— Dani
I was riddled with self-doubt and indecision before I started coaching with Ilja. Her empathy, understanding, and practical strategies transformed my outlook. I’ve developed a stronger, more positive self-image. Thank you, Ilja, for helping me turn my dreams into reality! You definitely know your stuff.
“I stopped spiraling and started trusting myself. That was worth everything.”
– Amy
Working with Ilja felt like finally getting permission to be exactly who I am – no mask, no script.
x Tasha
She’s the first person who challenged me without making me feel small. That changed everything.
Lena M.
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Please feel free to get in touch with me if you have any questions.
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Ilja Abbattista, Merchant House, 5 East St Helen Street, Abingdon, OX14 5EG
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