Free Survival Guide for ADHD, Autistic & Traumatised Women
A soft place to land for the late-diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or quietly overwhelmed.
“I used to think I was lazy, chaotic, dramatic.
Turns out, I was just surviving… in a world that wasn’t built for my wiring.”
✨ What You’ll Find Inside
🧠 5 surprising ways AuDHD shows up differently in women (especially when trauma is in the mix)
🧰 Daily tools to calm overwhelm and regulate your nervous system
💬 Scripts for talking about your diagnosis – what helps, what hurts, what lands
🔍 Mindset shifts to help you unmask, reframe, and rebuild from the inside out
📚 The resources I swear by – books, podcasts, tools that helped me most
💬 What People Say:
“This guide felt like someone finally saw the real me.
I cried the whole way through – in the best way.”
– Early Reader
🖤 For the Woman Who’s:
- Always felt too much and not enough
- Spent her life masking, people-pleasing, or spiralling
- Ready to understand her brain – and treat herself with more kindness
You’re not alone. You’re not broken.
You’ve just never had the right mirror.
Let this guide be the first one.👉 Send Me the Free Guide
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🌱 Want to Go Deeper?
This guide is just the beginning.
- 💻 Visit my website for more support & resources
- 🎙️ Listen to Dating on High Alert — the podcast for neurodivergent hearts
- 📚 Grab free tools to help you feel seen, strong, and safe in your own skin
With love,
Ilja x
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