You’re Not Broken – You Were Just Never Met Fully

Free Survival Guide for ADHD, Autistic & Traumatised Women

A soft place to land for the late-diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or quietly overwhelmed.


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“I used to think I was lazy, chaotic, dramatic.
Turns out, I was just surviving… in a world that wasn’t built for my wiring.”


✨ What You’ll Find Inside

🧠 5 surprising ways AuDHD shows up differently in women (especially when trauma is in the mix)
🧰 Daily tools to calm overwhelm and regulate your nervous system
💬 Scripts for talking about your diagnosis – what helps, what hurts, what lands
🔍 Mindset shifts to help you unmask, reframe, and rebuild from the inside out
📚 The resources I swear by – books, podcasts, tools that helped me most

💬 What People Say:

“This guide felt like someone finally saw the real me.
I cried the whole way through – in the best way.”
– Early Reader


🖤 For the Woman Who’s:

  • Always felt too much and not enough
  • Spent her life masking, people-pleasing, or spiralling
  • Ready to understand her brain – and treat herself with more kindness

You’re not alone. You’re not broken.
You’ve just never had the right mirror.
Let this guide be the first one.👉 Send Me the Free Guide

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With love,
Ilja x

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